♥Saturday, December 27, 2008
worked.homed.ikea-ed.homed;
&maybe swimming+balling tmr.
i-miss-him.
Saw this poem over at Esther's blog:
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Man Enough to Answer
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I want to close this chapter with a challenge to young men...the
following poem by Lena Lathrop, entitled "A Woman's Question,"
speaks particularly to men. It chills me every time I read it.
Lathrop's words show me to be the immature boy that I am,
stopping me in my tracks and daring me to be a man
enough to treat a woman right. Some of the poem's wording
might seem old-fashioned, but the message is timeless.
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Do you know you have asked for the costliest thing
Ever made by the Hand above—
A woman's heart, and a woman's life
And a woman's wonderful love?
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Do you know you have asked for this priceless thing
As a child might ask for a toy,
Demanding what others have died to win,
With the reckless dash of a boy?
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You have written my lesson of duty out,
Man-like, you have questioned me;
Now stand at the bar of my woman's soul
Until I shall question thee.
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You require your mutton shall always be hot,
Your socks and your shirt be whole;
I require your heart to be true as God's stars,
And as pure as heaven your soul.
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You require a cook for your mutton and beef;
I require a far better thing.
A seamstress you're wanting for socks and shirts;
I look for a man and a king.
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A king for the beautiful realm called Home,
And a man that the Maker,
God,Shall look upon as He did the first
And say, "It is very good."
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I am fair and young,
but the rose will fadeFrom my soft, young cheek one day,
Will you love me then 'mid the falling leaves,
As you did 'mid the bloom of May?
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Is your heart an ocean so strong and deep,
I may launch my all on its tide?
A loving woman finds heaven or hell
On the day she is made a bride.
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I require all things that are grand and true,
All things that a man should be;
If you give all this, I would stake my life
To be all you demand of me.
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If you cannot do this — a laundress and cook
You can hire, with little to pay,
But a woman's heart and a woman's life
Are not to be won that way.
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To girls reading this book, I pray this poem serves
as a reminder to keep your standards high.
Require all things that are "grand and true". ..
don't lower your standards for a moment,any guy
who asks you to do so isn't worth your time.
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And to the guys, we have our work cut out for us,
don't we? My hope for us is that we would truly
grasp the costliness, the pricelessness, of a woman's love.
It is no small thing, no game, to invite a girl to accompany
us through life. May we earn the right to make such
a request by striving to be men of integrity-
men whose hearts are oceans "strong and true."
Then, and only then, should we stand at the bars of
a woman's soul and ask to gain entrance.
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